{"id":1780,"date":"2016-05-04T19:26:56","date_gmt":"2016-05-04T18:26:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.archibat.com\/blog\/?p=1780"},"modified":"2018-10-29T17:48:17","modified_gmt":"2018-10-29T16:48:17","slug":"small-talk-art","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archibat.com\/blog\/small-talk-art\/","title":{"rendered":"Le small talk tout un art"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Qu\u2019est ce que le small talk\u00a0? Il s\u2019agit des petites conversations que l\u2019on peut avoir avec ses coll\u00e8gues, son boss ou ses clients, lors de la pause caf\u00e9, avant de commencer une r\u00e9union, ou dans un cocktail professionnel pour engager la conversation &#8230; Il s\u2019agit d\u2019une forme d\u2019\u00e9change tr\u00e8s pratiqu\u00e9e aux Etats Unis et une r\u00e8gle incontournable en Asie.<\/p>\n<h2>De quoi peut-on parler\u00a0?<\/h2>\n<p>On peut parler de sujets l\u00e9gers comme la m\u00e9t\u00e9o, les d\u00e9placements, mais aussi les weekends, les derni\u00e8res vacances ou une passion commune. Aborder ces sujets de mani\u00e8re originale permet de briser la glace, ce qui est l\u2019objectif de ce genre de conversations. Pour cela, essayez d\u2019apporter une touche personnelle \u00e0 votre discours et tenez vous \u00e9loign\u00e9 des lieux communs. Savoir ma\u00eetriser les expressions \u00ab\u00a0starters\u00a0\u00bb qui amorcent le dialogue permet de se lancer : \u00ab\u00a0J&rsquo;ai trouv\u00e9 votre intervention tr\u00e8s pertinente\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0J&rsquo;aimerais avoir votre avis\u00a0\u00bb&#8230;.<\/p>\n<h2>Adopter l\u2019\u00e9coute active<\/h2>\n<p>Afin de trouver les mots justes, il faut sinc\u00e8rement s&rsquo;int\u00e9resser \u00e0 l&rsquo;autre et le valoriser. Int\u00e9ressez vous aux anecdotes de vos interlocuteurs, essayez de rebondir sur leurs r\u00e9cits. Cette attitude est toujours appr\u00e9ci\u00e9e. Si vous \u00eates dans une entreprise anglo-saxonne, soyez pr\u00eat \u00e0 r\u00e9aliser des transitions d\u2019un sujet \u00e0 un autre\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0That reminds me of&#8230;\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0By the way&#8230;\u00bb etc. Passer du coq \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e2ne n\u2019est pas mal per\u00e7u outre atlantique tandis qu\u2019en France cela peut \u00eatre consid\u00e9r\u00e9 comme un manque d\u2019int\u00e9r\u00eat pour le sujet de votre interlocuteur.<\/p>\n<h2>Etre s\u00fbr de soi et de son sens de la r\u00e9partie<\/h2>\n<p>Etre s\u00fbr de soi permet d\u2019\u00e9changer plus facilement avec les autres, cela leur donne envie de mieux vous connaitre, cela peut \u00e9galement leur d\u00e9clencher l&rsquo;envie de travailler avec vous. Dans l&rsquo;univers professionnel, une personne avec un bon sens de l\u2018humour et de la r\u00e9partie est divertissante, elle donne envie aux autres de la c\u00f4toyer et leur laisse un souvenir marquant. Mais le small talk est \u00e0 pratiquer avec art et l\u00e9g\u00e8ret\u00e9 ; si votre interlocuteur plonge le nez dans son t\u00e9l\u00e9phone, qu&rsquo;il n&rsquo;accroche pas votre regard, vouloir s&rsquo;imposer risque d&rsquo;\u00eatre g\u00eanant et provoquer l&rsquo;effet contraire !<\/p>\n<p>Ma\u00eetriser l\u2019art du small talk est un atout qui peut vous permettre de vous d\u00e9marquer et vous aider \u00e0 r\u00e9ussir. N\u2019oubliez pas de rester l\u00e9ger et d\u2019\u00e9viter les sujets qui f\u00e2chent\u00a0!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Alors, \u00eates vous pr\u00eat \u00e0 pratiquer le small talk avant votre prochain RV chez un client ?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Qu\u2019est ce que le small talk\u00a0? 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